{"id":74658,"date":"2025-12-07T18:17:13","date_gmt":"2025-12-07T17:17:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/"},"modified":"2025-12-07T18:17:13","modified_gmt":"2025-12-07T17:17:13","slug":"prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/","title":{"rendered":"Prayer for the family of the dying: 7 essential, practical steps"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying_gentle_words_steady_hope\"><\/span>Prayer for the family of the dying: gentle words, steady hope<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>In the hardest moments we face, when a loved one is nearing the end of life, <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> offers language, presence and hope. It does not erase pain, but it can steady a room, give shape to love, honour the person\u2019s life, and keep everyone connected when words are hard to find. Whether you come from a faith tradition or simply want to hold a compassionate silence, you can use prayer to comfort, to thank, to release, and to trust. This guide offers practical steps, respectful examples, and sensitive advice to help you use prayer wisely and warmly.<\/p>\n<p>This is written for adults with no need for specialist knowledge. It blends simple ideas and flexible wording you can tailor to different beliefs, ages and settings\u2014home, hospital, hospice, chapel or bedside.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_is_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>What is prayer for the family of the dying?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>At its heart, <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> is a way to express love and care in the presence of mortality. It can be spoken aloud, whispered, sung, read from a book, or offered as quiet contemplation. It may include thanksgiving for a life, permission to let go, requests for peace and courage, and a blessing for those who must continue living.<\/p>\n<p>Prayer can be explicitly religious (using scripture, set texts or traditional words) or simple and inclusive (\u201cMay you be held in peace\u201d). It can be a short phrase repeated with the breath, a psalm, a familiar hymn line, or a shared silence. For many families, the act of gathering and naming their hopes for the person who is dying is as important as any specific wording.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_this_matters_at_the_end_of_life\"><\/span>Why this matters at the end of life<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Families often feel helpless as death approaches. A considered <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> gives a focus when practical tasks reduce and emotions rise. It supports gentleness, gratitude and reconciliation. From a psychological perspective, prayer can reduce anxiety, affirm meaning, and ease regret by creating a safe space for saying \u201cthank you\u201d, \u201csorry\u201d, \u201cI love you\u201d, and \u201cgoodbye\u201d. From a spiritual perspective, it trusts that the person is held\u2014by God, by love, by the community, or by the mystery beyond us.<\/p>\n<p>Importantly, prayer also supports the living. It recognises the carers\u2019 exhaustion and fear, and offers them a blessing for the days ahead. Many families later say that the moments of prayer at the bedside became the clearest memories of comfort in a difficult time.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Key_principles_for_thoughtful_prayer\"><\/span>Key principles for thoughtful prayer<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Respect the person\u2019s wishes. Let their beliefs, values and preferences guide the tone and length of your <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>.<\/li>\n<li>Keep it simple. Short prayers are often the kindest when people are tired and emotions are raw.<\/li>\n<li>Be honest and gentle. Avoid phrases that minimise pain; instead, acknowledge it and ask for peace.<\/li>\n<li>Use silence well. A few breaths of quiet between sentences can be more powerful than many words.<\/li>\n<li>Include gratitude. Thank the person by name for specific gifts they brought to life.<\/li>\n<li>Invite, don\u2019t force. Offer the chance to join in; allow people to pass if they wish.<\/li>\n<li>Mind the room. Speak in a calm, steady voice; sit if others are sitting; hold a hand only with permission.<\/li>\n<li>End with a blessing. Close your <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> by sending peace to the person and strength to those who remain.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_lead_a_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>How to lead a prayer for the family of the dying<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li>Ask permission and set the tone. \u201cWould it be helpful if we shared a short <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>?\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Prepare the space. Lower harsh lighting, turn off distractions, and invite people to gather comfortably.<\/li>\n<li>Begin with a breath. A few slow breaths together help everyone arrive in the moment.<\/li>\n<li>Name the person. Use their preferred name. This keeps the prayer personal and dignified.<\/li>\n<li>Blend elements. A good structure: welcome, gratitude, request for peace, release, blessing.<\/li>\n<li>Keep it short. One to three minutes is often enough; you can always offer more later.<\/li>\n<li>Close gently. A soft \u201cAmen\u201d, \u201cSo be it\u201d, \u201cPeace be with you\u201d, or a shared silence.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Some families draw on familiar practices. For Catholics, the <a href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/divine-mercy-chaplet-prayer\/\">Divine Mercy Chaplet<\/a> is often prayed for the dying and those who care for them. Others lean on a favourite psalm, a hymn line, or a simple breath prayer such as \u201cOn the in-breath: peace; on the out-breath: rest.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Scripture verses that speak of consolation also help. For example, the promise of God\u2019s closeness in <a href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/zephaniah-3-17f\/\">Zephaniah 3:17<\/a> can be read quietly before or after a brief <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Short_examples_of_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>Short examples of prayer for the family of the dying<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Use these as they are, or adapt the language to honour your tradition. Each example keeps to a simple rhythm and can be read slowly.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"An_ecumenical_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>An ecumenical prayer for the family of the dying<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Holy God, we gather with love around [Name]. We thank you for the days given and the gifts shared. We ask for calm where there is fear, and for gentleness in every breath. Hold [Name] in your peace, and hold us together in hope. Give us courage for what we cannot change and mercy for what we regret. May love be our last word and our lasting memory. Amen.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_Christian_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>A Christian prayer for the family of the dying<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Lord Jesus, you know our grief and you promise rest. We commend [Name] into your hands. Forgive, heal and comfort. Give [Name] the grace to let go and enter your light, and grant this family the strength to watch and to pray. As we remember your cross and resurrection, let your presence fill this room with peace. In your name, Amen.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"An_interfaith_or_secular-spirited_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>An interfaith or secular-spirited prayer for the family of the dying<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Source of life and love, we sit here with [Name] and with one another. We are grateful for laughter shared, lessons learned, and love that remains. Bring calm to this bedside, ease to this body, and kindness to every heart. Help us forgive, thank, and release. May [Name] be held in peace, and may we be gentle with ourselves and with each other. So be it.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_very_short_bedside_prayer\"><\/span>A very short bedside prayer<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Peace for [Name], courage for us, love to surround us all. Amen.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_prayer_for_carers_and_close_friends\"><\/span>A prayer for carers and close friends<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Compassionate God, bless the hands that care, the hearts that keep watch, and the minds that make hard decisions. Give patience, rest, and reassurance. Let us see small wonders in these last days, and carry us through the days to come. Amen.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Scripture_readings_and_lines_that_comfort\"><\/span>Scripture, readings and lines that comfort<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If your family is Christian, passages like Psalm 23, John 14:1\u20133, or Romans 8:38\u201339 are often chosen alongside a quiet <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>. A single line repeated slowly can help a mixed-belief group: \u201cThe Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want,\u201d or \u201cPerfect love casts out fear.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For mixed or secular settings, consider a short poem or a line of gratitude: \u201cThank you for the love we have known.\u201d These words can be followed by a silence and then a brief blessing.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Common_mistakes_to_avoid_in_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>Common mistakes to avoid in prayer for the family of the dying<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Over-explaining. Keep your <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> focused on presence, not theology debates.<\/li>\n<li>Promising what you cannot promise. Avoid saying the person will recover if that is unlikely.<\/li>\n<li>Ignoring the person\u2019s wishes. If they preferred quiet or a different form of prayer, honour that.<\/li>\n<li>Making it too long. People tire quickly; a short prayer followed by silence is kinder.<\/li>\n<li>Sidelining emotions. Let tears and pauses happen; they are part of the prayer.<\/li>\n<li>Excluding anyone. Use inclusive language unless the family explicitly wants otherwise.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Including_children_and_teens\"><\/span>Including children and teens<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Young people can participate meaningfully in a simple <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>. Invite them to share one favourite memory or a short \u201cthank you\u201d for something specific. Offer a small role (placing a flower, choosing a photo, lighting a candle if permitted). Keep words brief and avoid euphemisms they may find confusing. Afterward, check in and affirm their contribution.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div id='video-container' data-video-id='7MqL6v4EwCY' style='width:100%; height:auto; max-width:587px; position: relative;'>\n<div class='image-video-plugin' style='background:url(\"https:\/\/img.youtube.com\/vi\/7MqL6v4EwCY\/0.jpg\") center no-repeat; background-size: cover;'><\/div>\n<p>        <span class='youtube-play-button'><\/span><br \/>\n        <noscript><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=7MqL6v4EwCY\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><\/a><\/noscript>\n    <\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"When_you_cannot_be_present_remote_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>When you cannot be present: remote prayer for the family of the dying<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Distance, illness or visiting restrictions can make bedside prayer impossible. In such cases, arrange a short video or audio call for a shared <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>. Keep microphones muted for background noise during readings, and unmute for responses such as \u201cAmen\u201d or a shared silence with cameras off. If a call is not possible, agree a time when everyone pauses wherever they are to recite the same words. Knowing others are praying at the same moment brings connection across miles.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Blending_prayer_with_practical_care\"><\/span>Blending prayer with practical care<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Prayer sits alongside excellent end-of-life care. Families may find it helpful to consult reliable guidance on what to expect and how to support comfort in the last days. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/end-of-life-care\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">NHS overview on end of life care<\/a> explains common changes and care options. Charity resources such as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mariecurie.org.uk\/help\/support\/terminal-illness\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Marie Curie guidance for families facing terminal illness<\/a> offer practical tips before and after a death, while many churches provide set prayers for the final hours, such as the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.churchofengland.org\/prayer-and-worship\/topical-prayers\/prayers-dying-and-bereaved\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Church of England prayers for the dying and bereaved<\/a>. For bereavement support and hospice services, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hospiceuk.org\/information-support\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hospice UK information and support<\/a> is a trusted starting point.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Frequently_used_structures_for_your_own_words\"><\/span>Frequently used structures for your own words<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When adapting a <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>, this simple three-part pattern can guide you:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Gratitude: \u201cWe thank you for [Name] and for\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Petition: \u201cGrant peace to [Name], and strength to us\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Blessing: \u201cMay love surround and keep us\u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You can add a short scripture line or meaningful phrase between these parts, or leave a silent pause. This modest form is portable, respectful and suitable for most settings.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cultural_and_interfaith_sensitivity\"><\/span>Cultural and interfaith sensitivity<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A well-shaped <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> listens before it speaks. Ask what practices or words are meaningful for this person. Some traditions invite specific rites or a cleric\u2019s presence; others emphasise silence. When families hold different beliefs, choose words that centre gratitude, peace and love. Specific rites can be offered separately so everyone is honoured.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_to_say_when_death_is_very_near\"><\/span>What to say when death is very near<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>In the last hours, short and steady words help. You might repeat softly: \u201cWe are here. We love you. We give you permission to rest.\u201d A brief <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> can then bless the person and the room: \u201cPeace to your body, peace to your breath, peace to your mind. Peace to us who watch with you.\u201d Afterward, keep silence or gentle music, and allow touch only as welcome.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"After_death_prayer_for_those_who_remain\"><\/span>After death: prayer for those who remain<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Once death has occurred, families often appreciate a closing prayer. This is no longer a <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>, but a prayer for the departed and the living: to honour the person\u2019s life, to ask for comfort in grief, and to bless the practical steps ahead. Keep it simple; speak slowly; name the person with respect.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Recommended_external_resources\"><\/span>Recommended external resources<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/conditions\/end-of-life-care\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">NHS overview on end of life care<\/a> \u2013 practical information on what to expect and how care is organised.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mariecurie.org.uk\/help\/support\/terminal-illness\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Marie Curie guidance for families facing terminal illness<\/a> \u2013 support, helplines and practical advice.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.churchofengland.org\/prayer-and-worship\/topical-prayers\/prayers-dying-and-bereaved\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Church of England prayers for the dying and bereaved<\/a> \u2013 set prayers suitable for bedside or home.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hospiceuk.org\/information-support\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hospice UK information and support<\/a> \u2013 bereavement and hospice resources across the UK.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Related_articles\"><\/span>Related articles<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/divine-mercy-chaplet-prayer\/\">How to pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/zephaniah-3-17f\/\">Comforting promise in Zephaniah 3:17<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Frequently_asked_questions_about_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>Frequently asked questions about prayer for the family of the dying<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_long_should_a_bedside_prayer_be\"><\/span>How long should a bedside prayer be?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>One to three minutes is usually enough. A <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> should be calm and unhurried, with a short pause between phrases. You can always offer another brief prayer later if the family wishes.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_if_family_members_have_different_beliefs\"><\/span>What if family members have different beliefs?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Choose inclusive language that centres on peace, gratitude and love. Offer to include a separate moment for specific traditions. A gentle, non-specific <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> allows everyone to participate without discomfort.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can_I_use_scripture_or_set_prayers\"><\/span>Can I use scripture or set prayers?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Yes\u2014if it reflects the person\u2019s wishes. Short passages like Psalm 23 or John 14 fit well before or after a brief <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>. For Catholics, the Divine Mercy or the Rosary may be appropriate, while others may prefer a line from a hymn or a simple blessing.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_should_I_avoid_saying\"><\/span>What should I avoid saying?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Avoid promising recovery, minimising the family\u2019s pain, or implying that the person\u2019s suffering has a simple explanation. Keep your <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> compassionate and honest: ask for peace, name gratitude, and bless the person and the carers.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is_silence_acceptable_instead_of_words\"><\/span>Is silence acceptable instead of words?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Yes. A shared minute of silence, with a hand held or a candle lit, can be a complete <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>. You may begin and end that silence with a short phrase such as \u201cPeace be with you\u201d.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_if_I_become_emotional_while_praying\"><\/span>What if I become emotional while praying?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>It is normal to cry or pause. Emotion does not spoil a <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong>; it often deepens it. Take a breath, continue when ready, or close gently with a simple \u201cAmen\u201d.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conclusion_on_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\"><\/span>Conclusion on prayer for the family of the dying<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When words are few and the moment is tender, <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> offers a way to gather love, gratitude and courage into a small, steady space. You do not need expert language\u2014only respect for the person\u2019s wishes, kindness in your tone, and the willingness to be present.<\/p>\n<p>Keep your <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> simple: a breath, a thank you, a request for peace, a blessing. Use silence as a friend. Lean on familiar prayers or inclusive phrases as needed. Trust that even very short words, spoken gently, can hold a family together and honour a life beautifully.<\/p>\n<p>Above all, remember that every family, like every life, is unique. Shape your <strong>prayer for the family of the dying<\/strong> to fit the person you love, the room you are in, and the hope you share. May peace and strength be with you.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_86 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Alternar tabla de contenidos\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" 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href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#What_is_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >What is prayer for the family of the dying?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Why_this_matters_at_the_end_of_life\" >Why this matters at the end of life<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Key_principles_for_thoughtful_prayer\" >Key principles for thoughtful prayer<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#How_to_lead_a_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >How to lead a prayer for the family of the dying<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Short_examples_of_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >Short examples of prayer for the family of the dying<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#An_ecumenical_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >An ecumenical prayer for the family of the dying<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#A_Christian_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >A Christian prayer for the family of the dying<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#An_interfaith_or_secular-spirited_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >An interfaith or secular-spirited prayer for the family of the dying<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#A_very_short_bedside_prayer\" >A very short bedside prayer<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#A_prayer_for_carers_and_close_friends\" >A prayer for carers and close friends<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Scripture_readings_and_lines_that_comfort\" >Scripture, readings and lines that comfort<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Common_mistakes_to_avoid_in_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >Common mistakes to avoid in prayer for the family of the dying<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Including_children_and_teens\" >Including children and teens<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#When_you_cannot_be_present_remote_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >When you cannot be present: remote prayer for the family of the dying<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Blending_prayer_with_practical_care\" >Blending prayer with practical care<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Frequently_used_structures_for_your_own_words\" >Frequently used structures for your own words<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-18\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Cultural_and_interfaith_sensitivity\" >Cultural and interfaith sensitivity<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-19\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#What_to_say_when_death_is_very_near\" >What to say when death is very near<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-20\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#After_death_prayer_for_those_who_remain\" >After death: prayer for those who remain<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-21\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Recommended_external_resources\" >Recommended external resources<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-22\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Related_articles\" >Related articles<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-23\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Frequently_asked_questions_about_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >Frequently asked questions about prayer for the family of the dying<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-24\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#How_long_should_a_bedside_prayer_be\" >How long should a bedside prayer be?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-25\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#What_if_family_members_have_different_beliefs\" >What if family members have different beliefs?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-26\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Can_I_use_scripture_or_set_prayers\" >Can I use scripture or set prayers?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-27\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#What_should_I_avoid_saying\" >What should I avoid saying?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-28\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Is_silence_acceptable_instead_of_words\" >Is silence acceptable instead of words?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-29\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#What_if_I_become_emotional_while_praying\" >What if I become emotional while praying?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-30\" href=\"https:\/\/oracioncristiana.org\/en\/prayer-for-the-family-of-the-dying\/#Conclusion_on_prayer_for_the_family_of_the_dying\" >Conclusion on prayer for the family of the dying<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Prayer for the family of the dying: gentle words, steady hope In the hardest moments we face, when a loved one is nearing the end of life, prayer for the family of the dying offers language, presence and hope. 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